Because you choose it. I know that sounds ridiculous to you, but what I mean is you continue to see it that way. You do not choose to find a different perspective or to solve some of the problems that are contributing to your suffering.
I agree with what Mohini Mishra said, except I don’t know anything about the book. You may not have control over what happens to you, but you have complete control over how you respond to it. There is always – ALWAYS – a perspective available that does not result in suffering.
I’m afraid that’s going to still sound ridiculous to you, and impossible. Maybe that book will help you, I don’t know. What I do know is that as long as you see it as suffering, you will suffer.
I know how hard this will be, honestly I do, but you have to start looking for what might be advantageous to you in these things that are now causing you suffering. Your world will change.
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